A friend posted this today on FB and I had just had to re-share. I really like the analogy to the mother duck giving over her fresh feathers for the nests of her little ones. It reminds me to stay motivated in what I do everyday, to keep giving and sacrificing for the sake of my nest.
And I like the quote -- "a mother can either erupt or pluck." Yes. Yes yes yes.
I'm not going to try to take credit for this post. It can be originally
found here. This is just one of those times that I WISH I had written and taken photos that well, or that I was a professional blogger that got paid money for my thoughts on life. Alas, no. This is simply pasted in from it's original home. Enjoy...
Houses
may be bought, built, or borrowed.
But homes can only be made.
And only with bits of ourselves.
The kids and I sit together close in a house with dishes on
the counter and read about painters and artists and look at a flock of
ducks, preened and nestled, a painting, oil on canvas.
The children press in close for a better look at the open book, at
Alexander Koester’s “Ducks“
, and I read aloud the caption under the
painting.
“
Mother ducks pick feathers from their chests to line their
nests.”
I look around at the house. I pause.
And the children gaze thoughtfully at a clutch of plump white, blizzard of
feathers fallen down.
But it’s those words that mesmerize me: “
Mother ducks pick feathers
from their chests, to line their nests.”
I lay my hand on the page, on a duck breast puffed, mother plunging beak in
deep, and I say it out loud: “
How else did you think nests were
lined?”
With leftovers.
That’s what I thought.
With feathers discarded, the molted, the not-so-necessary feathers.
I thought mother ducks picked feathers up from what was laying about, scraps,
lining nests with what simply could be mustered after the fact.
But no.
No, a mother duck plucks each feather out from the heart of
her bosom.
She lines the nest with bits of herself — the best of
herself.
A mother cups her brood not with leftovers — but with her own
sacrifice.
The kids pull at the corner of the page, anxious to see the next
painting.
Reluctantly, I turn the page. But for weeks, I’m the one turned.
For weeks, part of me lives among Koester’s ducks.
I scrub out the arches of muffin tins after breakfast on a misty morning, the
clock ticking insufferably loud in my ears, time running down.
Children need books and learning, and I’m tuned for the expected chime of the
doorbell, a service personnel’s scheduled visit.
And the words rise like this lava, “I don’t have time for this!
No
muffins tomorrow morning!”
Pluck.
It’s like I can feel it.
Like I can feel this tugging.
The service man meets me with muffin tins still in the sink. He meets happy
kids. Could I meet needs with a bit more of me?
There are times, too many, when they call, “
Read me a
story?” “
Wanna play a game with me?” “
Can you
come help me?”
And this mother refuses to pluck.
Something, some task, someone (
me?), rates as more pressing, more
important. I deem our nest acceptable just as it is.
I don’t want to
sacrifice more of me.
Then it comes: the pecking, the scratching, the squawking. When the feather
lining of the nest wears thin, the nest chafes hard. We feel it. We hurt. Life
gets hard.
Nests need feathers deep.
Someone must pluck.
When will I learn: The down we sacrifice from ourselves — this is
what settles and soothes.
Scraps won’t suffice.
Not mere snippets of time, leftover me, a trinket, a
diversion, tossed.
Mother ducks don’t line nests with feathers, dirty and trampled, the molted
and unnecessary.
Why would I?
Nests need feathers fresh, warm
with mother’s life.
The pain of the plucking can linger long.
The parts of oneself sacrificed, this can hurt.
But was it really sacrifice?
Or was my skin just too tender?
It’s done, it was necessary, and it was for something better.
Some nights, when all sleep, I feel along the hidden bald patches.
Come evening,
I ask a boy to vacuum up popcorn and paper remnants and bits of
the day.
Dinner needs making, laundry needs rescuing, math needs marking. My head
aches. Popcorn crunches under the feet.
The boy hauls the vacuum cleaner out of the front closet. I should have
noticed how his eyes had this glint. He plugs in the machine and it grumbles
loud and he recalibrates that vacuum cleaner —- to fire socks.
He’s firing sock cannons across the kitchen.
His brothers dive in. Socks fly. Brothers howl and whip and it gets loud.
Caught in the cross-fire with a pot in hand –
a mother can either
erupt. Or Pluck.
This old mother, she tosses the pot and chases down future men, wrestles them
down and pins them in tickles. It feels good, wild and alive.
We warm here in laughter.
Us close, one atop the other,
nesting down into sacrifices, soft and
small, a solace.
Night descends. Kids crawl into beds. I read stories, stroke hair, say
prayers.
Prayers to Him who plucked hard from His own heart.
A sacrifice, staggering and true, for love of His very own.
We learn love from His laid
down.
Tired heads nestle into pillows, into
these pillows of down.
We rest on all these feathers plucked…
